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Meditation

Posted by Unknown Kamis, 12 Desember 2013 0 komentar


Meditation is the practice of meditation or relaxation that involves the release of the mind of all things interesting, overburden, or worry in our daily lives. The literal meaning of meditation is chewing activity-unyah or flick through the mind, thinking, merenungkan.Arti definition, meditation is structured mental activity, carried out over a certain period, to analyze, draw conclusions, and take further steps to address, determine the action or settlement of a personal matter, life, and behavior.

In other words, meditation releases us from the suffering of good and bad thoughts are very subjective which relate directly proportional to our attachment to thoughts and judgments tertentu.Kita began to understand that life is a series of thoughts, judgments, and subjective release the endless intuitively we start lepaskan.Dalam state of mind that is free from the activity of thinking, it turns out people do not die, nor fainted, and remained conscious.

The best teacher is the experience.No meditation teacher, seminar, or meditation books that can teach exactly how should we do live bermeditasi.Setiap people can freely give their own values ​​about the meaning of meditation for kehidupannya.Oleh because only with practicing meditation in life, people can feel the benefits of a trip semadi.Ada much sense about meditation, among which are:

    Way to enter the consciousness of the soul.
    
The road to self-introspection.
    Way to communicate with the creator.
    
Way to change lives.
    Way to achieve inner peace.

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Magical power of Muslimah

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As we know, every provision of Shari'ah termadap human gods is for the welfare and safety of the man himself. So is the compulsory wearing of the veil for Muslim women is in order to maintain the honor and dignity of a Muslim woman. Allah states in the Qur'an Surat al-Ahzab verse 59: "O Prophet, Tell your wives, your daughters and wives of the believers:" Let them stretch out to their entire body veil ". Such so that they are easier to be known, therefore they are not disturbed. and Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful ". From the above verses, it is clear wisdom contained behind busanah command to wear the Muslim headscarf or wear. Among them are: As a Muslim identity. God gives obligation to veil the women of the believers that has its own characteristics and identity that distinguishes it from the non-Muslims. In a hadith says: "Whoever imitates a people then he belonged to them" (Narrated by Abu Dawud) identity is really important in life that can distinguish between one and the other. When someone loses his trademark identity and then there goes his authority in his life. A nation that does not own a identity he would not have the prestige of other peoples eyes. So is the Muslim woman with elegant scarf can distinguish between himself and the woman or women pagan ignorance. Ennoble Muslim women (Muslim). By wearing a veil that covers the entire private parts private parts and not open in any place, then a Muslim is like a gemstone that is displayed in the window that not just anyone can pick up and have it. And it's not like rocks that littered the streets where everyone can easily pick it up, then enjoy it, then throw it back. Allah said: "Whoever works righteousness, whether male or female in a state of faith, verily to him will We give a good life and will indeed We gave a reply to them with a better reward than what they have done." (QS.An-Nahl (16): 97) Prevent men from interference irresponsible. It is easy to understand because the whole body covered except the face and palms, then there will probably no idle men are attracted to tempt and destroy him as long as he does not behave exaggerated. So that events such as rape, adultery, etc. can be avoided. "And come not nigh to fornication; adultery actually it is a heinous act. And an evil way. "(Surat al-Israa '(17): 32) However, in life we ​​have to admit is very little going on kejatan sex and promiscuity of the woman who wears Muslim dress perfectly. Because Allah has guaranteed they will not be disturbed as his word in Ayata above. Would seem to her piety traits that make men reluctant to disturb him. But for women who mengumbr private parts, they are easily deceived by men bitch as we see in the media about crimes ranging from rape to prostitution until we see the culprit of women who dress sexy. Hijab is a symbol of the modern woman. We can see that the neatly dressed and wearing hijab for Muslim women modern clothing is a model that was never practiced by the nations preceding you. This can be evidenced by the historical fact that Islam encourages the Muslim woman to wear a headscarf to maintain the honor and pride. It's just that now many women who berpakaia half-naked women as a model of primitive Dayak diiriyan victorious or as the woman of old who still lives half naked despite the modern world. However, by wearing clothes that would look good in any modernity and elegance. That's because some of the lessons and in accordance with human nature which embarrassed to reveal his private parts "cock". Many of the western women who are interested in Islam so that Islam developed there. Among them commented and said as done by Lucette Valensi, professor of women in high school social studies in Paris said, "Quran commands to keep the glory and apparel geared to both men, and women. This command is very clearly stated in the Koran, where women are not allowed to show the believer jewelry except for certain parts. Meanwhile, men who believe also ordered to hold his gaze and maintain. Hijab is a kind of protection for women to keep the price of himself and his family pride. " A woman named Fatima Lensel, Austrian expert on Islam said, "The use of the veil for Muslim women is a value and a genuine choice.". Harnesi Fatimah, one of the new Austrian woman who embraced Islam said, "Limitations of the veil, a value higher than the usual human freedom, because religious clothing is the key to freedom from jail lust for women and society. Today I understand that the hijab is a female patron. Hijab blocking sales of self-esteem and hinder or attention away from the gaze of strangers. In fact, the veil is not a physical trade in women, a value jewelry for the soul and humanity of a person. Therefore, the real hijab is a garment that is noble and praiseworthy. " That's how they compliment both Muslim and non-Muslims about the existence of the veil that becomes a shield and a symbol for the Muslim woman. Behind the veil beautiful, graceful and charming turns mengadung much wisdom and high moral values ​​despite the Orientalists and the anti-Islamic secular challenge.
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OVERCOMING PROBLEMS ON THE YOUTH

Posted by Unknown Rabu, 11 Desember 2013 0 komentar
Have previously discussed two views of adolescent development , the Psychosocial Theory and Theory of Cognitive Development . There are many theories that can be used to discuss the teen .Next is how the problems experienced by adolescents can be overcome . To be able to solve the problem , which was first done is to identify the problem , ie finding out what are the problems that occur in adolescence .If we refer back to the two theories are used , then there are two kinds of problems that will be faced by teenagers in outline , namely the problem of personality and cognitive problems .Adolescent Personality ProblemsErikson's theory of Psychosocial Development by depicting teens are at the development stage of Identity vs. Identity Disorder . At this stage , adolescents have a duty to find her identity through role earned . Search for identity can be identified as a problem to be faced by teenagers .Adolescent Cognitive ProblemsPiaget's Theory of Cognitive Development by show teens are at the Formal Operational stage of cognitive development is characterized by the ability to think abstractly is increasing rapidly . The ability to think abstractly will bring teens to the discovery of a new idealism subjective. The new idealism formed by adolescents has the potential to conflict with the ideals held by authority figures . This conflict is driven by the need autonomy to escape from parents and become independent .Contextual Issues TeensSome of the above discussion reveals the role of the neighborhood teens who also have influence over adolescent development . In the process of problem identification is also required attention in the context of adolescent life . Problems faced by adolescents may dilihjat in several aspects .Adolescent And FamilyProblems faced by teenagers in the family is a problem with the parents as authority figures , adolescents have a need for autonomous suit their ideals , while parents sometimes still treat teenagers as children .Another problem that may arise is the problem with other family members such as siblings or other relatives , but this problem is more casuistic and personal .Teens And PeersIn conjunction with peers , adolescents tend to have a problem that is no less complicated . In adolescence , many of those who form groups with diverse interests . The problem usually occurs in adolescents who do not have a group , but the teenagers who joined the ' geng'nya tidah was separated from the problem .Teens and SchoolTeens will have problems at school in relation to the development of cognitive and academic abilities . The success of young people in learning , extra-curricular activities and school organizations will give a better impact than those with passive or fail .Often adolescent problems also occur with peers in school , especially when peer interaction is taken as the reference of friends at school . Juuga school problems are often related to problems with the social environment such as juvenile delinquency .Teens and Social - Environmental LawAdolescence can be a starting point about how a teenager will function in society . Often this issue is still in the beginning stages since these problems often already initiated since remained at the previous stage of development .Teens who are less able to function well in society will be excluded and do not have a meaningful role . Delinquency childhood to adolescence can be carried into adolescent problems with law enforcement agencies as an authority figure higher than the parents .Teens And The Global EnvironmentThe era of globalization of information technology will also provide a wider impact for the problems faced by teenagers . Ranging from drug abuse , misuse of information technology due to AIDS -free sex is learned from the globalization of information technology .
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Hypnotic (Hypnosis)

Posted by Unknown Sabtu, 19 Oktober 2013 0 komentar


Hypnosis is a therapeutic technique in which clinicians ( psychologists , doctors , etc. ) make suggestions / suggestions to individuals who have undergone the procedure is designed to be relaxed and focused on their minds .
Hypnosis involves the introduction of a procedure in which subjects were told that the advice / suggestion imaginatively presented . When using hypnosis , one person ( the subject ) is guided by the lawyer- hypnotic ( the hypnotist ) who provide advice / suggestions degan goal subjective experience changes , changes in perception , sensation , emotion mind , or behavior . If the subject responds advice / suggestion from lawyer- hypnotic ( the hypnotist ) , it is generally inferred that hypnosis has been successful .
Although hypnosis is a controversy in science , or psychology most doctors agree that hypnosis can be an effective therapeutic technique for a variety of conditions , including pain disorders , anxiety and mood . Hypnosis can also help people change their habits , such as smoking cessation .
Hypnosis can vary from one person to another . Some hypnotized individuals feel relaxed / high current relaxation hypnotic state , while other individuals feel that their actions occur outside their awareness . But there are also individuals who remain fully conscious and able to carry on a conversation while under hypnosis .
Is hypnosis dangerous ? Absolutely not . Hypnosis is not a dangerous procedure , but complications can occur due to incorrect procedures , thus causing misperceptions on the part of the hypnotized .
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Be confident

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Meaning of Self Confidence . In everyday slang , Pede we mean is confidence. All people really have trouble with this one term . There are those who feel a sense of lost confidence in most of the territory of his life. Might be related to the question of self crisis , depression , loss of control , feeling helpless future looked bright side , and others. There are also people who have not had Pede / confidence in what he is doing or with what ditekuninya .There are also those who feel less confident when facing situations or circumstances. Based on the practice of living , we can say that the latter was normal in the sense that experienced by all men .Confidence is one of the very important aspects of personality in human life . People who believe themselves on their ability to self- confident and have a realistic expectation , even when their expectations are not realized , they remain positive minded and able to accept it. According to the dictionary term Thantaway Guidance and Counseling ( 2005:87 ) , self confidence is a mental or psychological condition of a person who gives strong confidence in him to do or perform an action. People who do not believe themselves have a negative self-concept , lack of faith in his ability, because it is often close themselves . Exposure based on self-confidence , we are also able to make some sort of conclusion that self-confidence is a mental or psychological condition , which individuals can evaluate the entirety of her strong belief in giving him the ability to take action in achieving a variety of goals in his life .

Due Less Confident
When it is associated with the practice of everyday life , people who have low confidence or have lost confidence , tend to feel / behave as follows :

a. Do not have anything ( desires, goals , targets ) which fought energetically .
b . Does not have a decision to step decissive ( floating )
c . Easily frustrated or give up when faced with problems or difficulties
d . Less motivated to go forward , lazy or half -and-half
e . Often fails to accomplish its tasks or responsibilities ( not optimal )
f . Awkward in dealing with people
g . Can not demonstrate the ability to speak and listen capabilities convincing
h . Often have unrealistic expectations
i . too perfectionist
j . Too sensitive ( flavorings )

Conversely , people who have good self-confidence , they have positive feelings toward themselves , have strong confidence on him and had accurate knowledge of the capabilities. People who have good self-confidence is not the only person who feels capable ( but actually not able ) but is a person who knows that he is capable of based on experience and calculation .
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Both puberty

Posted by Unknown Jumat, 18 Oktober 2013 0 komentar
The term " puberty " is derived from the word " pubes " which means hair that grows around the genitals . This condition is experienced by teenage children , both male and female . Second puberty is a condition in which there is a similarity of behavior like that of the children who enter puberty , such as more attention to appearance , more attention to the opposite sex , and so on .
Second puberty experienced by men and women age 40 years and over. The symptoms in men are now entering the second puberty. Reluctant to appear old. They began to notice the appearance and beauty of the body . Dyed her hair ala young, stylish slang, modifying his car became flat, and so on. They also begin to love again adventure. Starting from riding motorcycles from a distance, up and out of the discotheque. Productivity increased life. Many found that they are more adept at negotiating, the more advanced the business, as well as more spectacular career.
Whereas in women, the symptoms are. Interrupted or the cessation of menstruation ( menopause ). This happens because gonadotrop no longer produced by the gland hypophysc. Effects that occur are dizziness, lethargy, and less passionate. As a result, emotional stability is often compromised. Shrink fat deposits so that the skin begins to wrinkle, even breasts start changing shape. The hair was graying.
Each person will experience this second phase of puberty . Because it is necessary for adequate preparation to enter the mature phase of this crisis . This is where back -tested the commitment of marriage . Communication and understanding are very important role for the couple who started the second pubescent . Different conditions between the husband and wife often lead to conflict between the two . Husband getting excited in many ways , while the wife is getting lethargic and less passionate . If there is good communication between couples who entered this period , then the second crisis the problem will be resolved.
Some things you can do to get through a second puberty well are. Both banc without being bothered by the presence of children. Provide such a surprise candle light dinner, buy goods that. Are desirable partner, and so on. Open back memories photo album together. Watching movies alone and so on.
It is expected that couples entering a second puberty can pass well and entering the twilight of his life happily .
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