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HOW TO EDUCATE OUR CHILDREN

"Our children is an asset in the future. The children who will continue the descent of our family. If we do not pay attention to how to educate our child, our child someday become assets instead of the name of his parents instead become a disgrace to the family"

The following are tips on how to educate children so that later he became a man who can boast their parents

1. Give Example

Children are good learners because at that time they were full of curiosity . They are born into the world is like a white paper and clean , living parents and his environment will determine later whether he will fill the white paper with a good picture or just the opposite . Children learn by seeing and hearing . So as a parent should be able to exemplify good behavior and good and true words .The number of failures occurring in educating children is usually due to the inability of parents to their children 's behavior modeled . The adage says " the fruit will not fall far from the tree " , this saying is absolutely true . Kids are the mirror of their parents . If you as a parent want to teach honesty then you have to be honest , if you want to teach good manners , then you have good manners , if you want to teach discipline then you must be disciplined. 

2. Give Definition

The next is how to educate children ranging from small parents should give good notions about life. This understanding can be said is that life theories both of which will be useful for children's success in the future. Examples of understanding about honesty, about discipline, about integrity, about helping others, caring environment, work hard and others. With notions of the good life then your child will mature faster. Adults are able to determine which ones are good and which ones are not. To give a sense this means parents must increase understanding of the sciences of life is good, it means that the parents are no words to stop learning.

3. Give Suffering Artificial

Facts prove that many people who are now successful former is a child born from poor families or families mediocre . It was the children who were born from poor families they were forced to work hard and feel the suffering in comparison with children of the rich . The suffering of the little time it will arouse children's mental useful for their future . Proverb says : " People are weak while young , it will be forced to work hard in his old age " . To produce a successful child should never spoil the child . Instead the child should be trained suffering and struggles to start small , it can be started when the child began to walk logic thinking .Suffering artificial does not mean the child tortured to suffer , but children are conditioned very limited and there is a requirement to want something . Examples of when a child wants to buy a toy , parents should set a precondition that the requirement is to educate the mental and personality of the child . Suppose " You will want to buy the phone as long as your mama diligently tidy up and clean up your bedroom " or " You 'll mama traded computer if you diligently study and your grade average of 8 ".

4. Encourage children to dare to try something

A child is a great learner, and they are born with no fear. The fear began to appear when the environment began to fear viruses enter the words "do not, should not, watch out". As parents should pay attention to the courage of children, if your child starts to become people who do not dare, shy, not confident, then you have to encourage and motivate them to be brave and confident. Example when there are performances encourage them to advance to the performing arts be it singing, dancing, speeches and others.

Include competitions to hone the courage and confidence. If the race he lost to keep motivated to try again and give hope continually. Children who are students in the hope, the future will be those who are able to dream and big hearts.

Conclusions good way to educate children

Well that's a few tips on how educate child in your family. The most basic of all the way to educate children is exemplary and attention from their parents. Let us make Indonesian children great generation of leaders who will raise Indonesia to the competitive arena of the world in the future.