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Meaning of Self Confidence . In everyday slang , Pede we mean is confidence. All people really have trouble with this one term . There are those who feel a sense of lost confidence in most of the territory of his life. Might be related to the question of self crisis , depression , loss of control , feeling helpless future looked bright side , and others. There are also people who have not had Pede / confidence in what he is doing or with what ditekuninya .There are also those who feel less confident when facing situations or circumstances. Based on the practice of living , we can say that the latter was normal in the sense that experienced by all men .Confidence is one of the very important aspects of personality in human life . People who believe themselves on their ability to self- confident and have a realistic expectation , even when their expectations are not realized , they remain positive minded and able to accept it. According to the dictionary term Thantaway Guidance and Counseling ( 2005:87 ) , self confidence is a mental or psychological condition of a person who gives strong confidence in him to do or perform an action. People who do not believe themselves have a negative self-concept , lack of faith in his ability, because it is often close themselves . Exposure based on self-confidence , we are also able to make some sort of conclusion that self-confidence is a mental or psychological condition , which individuals can evaluate the entirety of her strong belief in giving him the ability to take action in achieving a variety of goals in his life .

Due Less Confident
When it is associated with the practice of everyday life , people who have low confidence or have lost confidence , tend to feel / behave as follows :

a. Do not have anything ( desires, goals , targets ) which fought energetically .
b . Does not have a decision to step decissive ( floating )
c . Easily frustrated or give up when faced with problems or difficulties
d . Less motivated to go forward , lazy or half -and-half
e . Often fails to accomplish its tasks or responsibilities ( not optimal )
f . Awkward in dealing with people
g . Can not demonstrate the ability to speak and listen capabilities convincing
h . Often have unrealistic expectations
i . too perfectionist
j . Too sensitive ( flavorings )

Conversely , people who have good self-confidence , they have positive feelings toward themselves , have strong confidence on him and had accurate knowledge of the capabilities. People who have good self-confidence is not the only person who feels capable ( but actually not able ) but is a person who knows that he is capable of based on experience and calculation .