Blaming "Circumstances (State)" Reasons Not Being In Solving Problems

Posted by Unknown Senin, 16 Desember 2013 0 komentar


Before we know it , our perception or mindset we 've formed with the dimensions of space and time that constrict us in many ways . Various reasons that will catapult when the problems we face can not be resolved properly . For example, students in school , not doing homework the reason for the rain , power failure or does not understand his job . Actually, this can not be called a problem but for one reason , that is LAZY . When the rain is there any effect with us ? Lights off , there is still a candle , do not understand ? There are still seniors who are willing to help us . So what exactly is the problem ? ? ?

            The problem is a misalignment of expectations with reality . Well , because it's there arose a problem . Life in this world is based to a problem , because with the problems we will be a wise man . The existence of the problem is a manifestation of our learning about the meaning of life on earth . How can we take advantage of this temporary life to be better . In developmental psychology there are some problem solving ( problem solving ) , before we share on a model of problem solving , we need to know what the Troubleshooting sii ? ?

            Troubleshooting a thought which was largely directed directly to find a solution / way out to a specific problem ( Solso : 2007) . It is very clear from the description in the book Solso explanation of the existence of a problem due to a misalignment of expectations , for iu enactment of solving the problem . However , according to the followers of Gestalt psychology ( gestalist ) , a problem arises when the existence of tensions or stress where it occurs from the interaction between perception and memory ( Solso : 2007) . By thinking about a problem or with researching from several different points of view , the view that ' right' according to us is the view that appears when we think about it more deeply .

            Okay , back to the previous topic , the existence of several models of problem solving in developmental psychology ( Santrock ) ie , First , Focus Problems Coping ( where someone in solving the problem , directly on the source of the problem ) . Second , Emotion Focus Coping ( where emotions take precedence in problem solving , able to manage his emotions well , well received ) . Third , Mall Adaptive Coping ( blame themselves , the source of the problem will go to him ) . Of some sort of problem solving above , most good and the most important is the first category , ie to solve the problem directly at the source of the problem . In this case when we are going to use problem solving above , to consider first the context of the events that it faces . Because there is a case , for example, the death of the good problem solving is not the first but the second , because it is impossible dong , we resolve the problem directly at the source , to God ? ? Noteworthy well so when will solve a problem .

            When looking for a solution in the solution to the existing problem solving rules or rules that would bring someone to solving these problems competently , ie If the alternatives of the problem. Take into account a variety of perspectives , not just from one source but from several sources that there are links with the problem . Anticipation of the risks that may arise , before taking a decision in the problem solving , to note the risk that we will receive , whether the risk is good for us , or on the contrary , makes us become trapped by the decisions we make . And the last Consider the credibility of information sources , we must not there clomot clomot here in search of information , but it must be the presence of a filter such information . Well from some of the quotes that I read and learned , I think is enough to explain , all sorts of processes , as well as how to deal with a problem . It's just that we need more in-depth study and practice it in reality so that what we learn gradually longer in our memory . :)

            I am reminded of the wise word " Lao Tsu " The biggest problem in the world , or previously had a small problem that is easily resolved . However , our way of looking at the problem of small and not soon to be completed , as a result became a big problem . The wise man when faced with major problems will consider the issue of small problems , as well as with a small problem , will assume there is no problem . Good luck to us all . :)

Referance :
Solso, Robert L,dkk. 2007. Psikologi Kognitif. Bandung: Erlangga

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