Long Distance Relation
Selasa, 08 Oktober 2013
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Many women are worried and upset when undergoing a long distance relationship or a long distance relationship (LDR). Separation distance, differences in time and intensity of meetings is minimal indeed became an obstacle in living a long distance relationship is separate.
Many question, whether a long distance relationship is worth fighting for? Jules Filsell, relationship adviser on the dating site eHarmony explain how knowing LDR worth keeping. Here it is the input of Jules, as summarized from So Feminine.
1.
Can Survive When You're welcome Sought
LDR deserves to be preserved when both trying. Every relationship needs some attention, but for LDR should be lots of struggle. Very difficult to read the partner's feelings when he is not on your side. That's why, you and your lover alike have struggled to survive a long distance relationship.
When he did not answer the phone, when you really want to share or he's in a bad mood and did not want to discuss it, of course it makes you worse. That's what makes the suspicion began to come and confidence began to fade. To that end, the couple should be together as much as possible take the time to communicate. But, if only one party is trying to keep the relationship going, then Jules said, there is no point in maintaining the business if you do not receive a reply.
LDR deserves to be preserved when both trying. Every relationship needs some attention, but for LDR should be lots of struggle. Very difficult to read the partner's feelings when he is not on your side. That's why, you and your lover alike have struggled to survive a long distance relationship.
When he did not answer the phone, when you really want to share or he's in a bad mood and did not want to discuss it, of course it makes you worse. That's what makes the suspicion began to come and confidence began to fade. To that end, the couple should be together as much as possible take the time to communicate. But, if only one party is trying to keep the relationship going, then Jules said, there is no point in maintaining the business if you do not receive a reply.
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Can Survive When You Do not Have
Other Commitments
Long distance relationship will be very beautiful if you can face any obstacle, but the reality is not that easy. LDR requires sacrifice from both parties, but not to sacrifice your priorities.
For example, you already know that it can not move to the city because he wanted to pursue a career in your current city or parents who can not be left out. Of course if you have to move to the city, you will sacrifice your ideals for this. If you have this, it will be difficult to find a middle point, especially if he's had similar reasons.
Long distance relationship will be very beautiful if you can face any obstacle, but the reality is not that easy. LDR requires sacrifice from both parties, but not to sacrifice your priorities.
For example, you already know that it can not move to the city because he wanted to pursue a career in your current city or parents who can not be left out. Of course if you have to move to the city, you will sacrifice your ideals for this. If you have this, it will be difficult to find a middle point, especially if he's had similar reasons.
In my opinion, long distance relations that exist good and bad. Well we rarely see, in the sense that we can exercise patience. While the poor little thing could be a big problem. The merits of a decision is actually back on our own self. How we live and how we react to it.
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