HEALTHY PERSONALITY was like what the heck ?
Jumat, 18 Oktober 2013
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The word personality ( personality) is derived from the Latin : persona ( mask
) , the word is commonly used by performers in Roman times in the role - play
role . At that time , each player plays the role each plays in accordance with
the mask he wore . Gradually , the word persona ( personality) turned out to be
a term that refers to a particular social picture received by an individual
from a group or community service , then the individual is expected bertinglah
behavior by or in accordance with an overview of social ( role ) that receives
( Koswara , 1991: 10 ) . As stated by Allport , " Personality lies behind
certain actions within the individual , and systems that make up personality in
everything is a trend that determines " ( Allport , 1971) .
Then the healthy personality was like what the heck ?
According to Allport (1976 ) , personality is seen as a healthy personality
, mature , and regardless of the traumas or conflicts in childhood .
Basically , the formation and growth of a healthy and mature personality are influenced by motivation , proprium , and functional autonomy . Motivation is the forces that push and pull , or how to set up human actions .
Basically , the formation and growth of a healthy and mature personality are influenced by motivation , proprium , and functional autonomy . Motivation is the forces that push and pull , or how to set up human actions .
Here is a sign of a healthy personality and less healthy according to
Dahler (1983 ) :
1 . Signs of a Healthy
Personality
·
Deep belief in yourself and others
·
No hesitation ,
no shame , but bold
·
Initiatives to grow and do not
always feel himself always guilty / innocent
·
Do not feel
inferior , but morale has
·
Be honest with
yourself
·
Able dedicated
- surrender yourself
·
Glad contact (
touch ) with fellow
·
Generatifitas (
fatherly - ibuan )
·
Integrity
2 . The signs are Less Healthy Personality
·
Unable to do
friendship , isolate themselves
·
Power
concentration of dispersed
·
Denial of the name , origin ,
ethnicity , past and others
·
Not being able
to fight for themselves
·
Nature wants
revenge
So, I think our personalities are healthy or unhealthy depends on our previous experiences (in childhood). And also depends on the motivation within ourselves that will decide.
Source : Sobur, Alex. 2003. Psikologi Umum. Bandung : Pustaka Setia.
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