emphaty in conseling
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Empathy
in counseling is very important . Given the counseling process is an
aid through interaction . One problem that often arises is the lack
of empathy in communication that can lead to misunderstandings
interaction counselee communication so frustrating and no benefits
resulting from the counseling process . Empathy is the basis of
interpersonal relationships . It is also important in the context of
improving the quality expressed empathy appeared someone was
practicing expressions or cues of non - verbal which makes the other
person feel understood and accepted , due to the ability of empathy
primarily involves a person's ability to read feelings through the
understanding of the non cues verbal others . This mentality makes
people relationships are good. Emphasized in the literature on the
effectiveness of counseling counseling ( counseling effectiveness )
is more determined than skills counselor . Therefore , the role of
empathy is quite essential that recognized in theories of counseling
, so that empathy be realized in the state during this counseling
practice is a necessity to be fostered and promoted by systemic in
education and lives of our people .
1. Without empathy , there can be
no understanding . Understand empathy is one's ability to understand
the perspectives and feelings of others . Understanding emphatically
not understand other people objectively , but instead he tried to
understand the thoughts and feelings of others in a way that other
people think and feel or see themselves . Understanding the client
based on the framework of the client's own perceptions and feelings
by Rogers called the internal frame of reference , it means using the
internal framework .
2 . According to Rogers counselor empathy as one of the key factors that help clients to solve their personal problems . When we empathize with others , we put ourselves " in their shoes" , see the world from their eyes , imagining what if into them , and try to feel what they feel .
3 . Social and cultural factors ( such as gender , ethnicity , cultural differences ) have an influence in the expression of emotion . These factors affect the way how the counselor responds emotionally .
4 . If clients feel understood , then they will be easier to open up to express their experiences and share them with others . Clients who shared his experiences in depth allows to assess when and where they need support , and the potential difficulties that need to focus on the plan change .
5 . When clients look at themselves empathetic counselor , they will be more comfortable for and do not defend as denial , withdrawal , etc. . Counselor empathy means to facilitate change in the client . Otherwise it would be willing to open up to the outside world with a more constructive way . That's why the term empathy plus a word " empathic understanding " .
2 . According to Rogers counselor empathy as one of the key factors that help clients to solve their personal problems . When we empathize with others , we put ourselves " in their shoes" , see the world from their eyes , imagining what if into them , and try to feel what they feel .
3 . Social and cultural factors ( such as gender , ethnicity , cultural differences ) have an influence in the expression of emotion . These factors affect the way how the counselor responds emotionally .
4 . If clients feel understood , then they will be easier to open up to express their experiences and share them with others . Clients who shared his experiences in depth allows to assess when and where they need support , and the potential difficulties that need to focus on the plan change .
5 . When clients look at themselves empathetic counselor , they will be more comfortable for and do not defend as denial , withdrawal , etc. . Counselor empathy means to facilitate change in the client . Otherwise it would be willing to open up to the outside world with a more constructive way . That's why the term empathy plus a word " empathic understanding " .
empathy in my opinion is one of the keys to success
in the counseling psychologist. because with empathy seorah
psychologists can understand the feelings in depth and build
emotional intimacy with the patient to want to tell the problem.
because usually the patient is still difficult to tell The issue in
detail as a result of various factors. the empathy shown by
psychologist patient will feel close and comfortable to tell The
issue.
source Bandura, 1973,A Bandura
source Bandura, 1973,A Bandura
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