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Time when most teenagers are happy and vulnerable to what the name of love . Especially now that a lot of the season in a troubled romance . Hadeuuhhh ... " Lebay " all right? The future is very busy with her ​​older they often become personal fable imagery and often do if the audience behaves , especially when they meet with their opposite sex . but what they feel and what they call love is actually not what it really means , it's all just their personal perspectives to meet the desires that arise within them . during adolescence , the so-called love is still love labile forms , and therefore often referred to as puppy love because they love not the love of the truth.
Nahh ... if it was in the teens , so when in adulthood , a new real we would know what the interest , the forms of love , and the end of the romance . Where these three things can be said to be in the process of establishing relationships .
 interest : interest may arise from the familiarity and similarity as well as physical attraction . Familiarity can generate resentment , as the old saying bungi . though social psychologists say that familiarity is a necessary condition that can develop close relationships . In many cases , friends and lovers are people who have known each other for a long time , they may grow up together , go to school or college together , work together , or visiting social events together. Then why people are drawn to other people who have attitudes , values ​​, and the same lifestyle ? The answer is consensual validation ( consensual validation ) . Attitudes and values ​​we gain support if the attitudes and values ​​of others as well as we are - attitudes and values ​​they adopt attitudes and values ​​. Physical attraction , although the similarities and differences are important , it does not explain the surge ripples are warm or romantic relationship : physical attractiveness . How important is physical attraction in a relationship ? The psychologists found no interest in a relationship with physical beauty is not as clear as diingainkan many advertising agencies .
 The forms include different love friendship , romantic love , love affective , and perfect love . Friendship plays an important role in the development of an adult . , Particularly in the context of emotional support . Romantic love , also called passionate love , includes desire , sexuality , and a mixture of emotions , which is not all positive . Love affective , also called love because of proximity , usually become more important when the relationship has matured . Shaver propose a developmental model of love , and Sternberg filed a triarchic model of love ( passion , intimacy , commitment ) .
 The end of romance : intimate relationships end can be a traumatic event , but in some individuals , this experience can lead to happiness and personal growth . For most people , the end of love is painful and involves intense emotions .

Well .. That's a bit of my pembahsan about love . Those which would have to happen to us later adulthood , not in adolescence that still do not know what the true nature of love . ( Santrock , 2012)