Friendship or companionship
Sabtu, 05 Oktober 2013
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Hi ... meet again with me . But this time I will talk about
friends . It turns out it was a friendly person , including from character
development values loh ..
ya .. if you do not believe ..
Value - the value of character development include
:
Religious
Honest
Tolerance
Discipline
Work hard
Creative
Self
Democratic
Curiosity
The spirit of nationality
Love homeland
Appreciate achievement
Friendly
Love peace
Love to read
Never give up
Care for the environment
Caring fellow
Believe right now ... ? ? ?
Well .. FRIENDLY . Each person must relate to the
relationship lain.model manifold . There are related because of the interests
of labor, economics , politics , religion , and so on . In interpersonal
relationships framed by certain practical interest , the principal destination
being the point of the relationship . Once the goal has been achieved , the
relationship is usually completed . For example , is the relationship between
employees and customers , the shop assistant buyers , and models of this kind
of relationship . Such relationships are mostly more formalistic . While the
relationship that is built up because without any goals or more dominant
humanitarian purposes , typically more durable , dissebut pattern of this kind
of relationship with friendship .
There is an interesting theory of philosopher Martin
Buber is interesting to ponder in relation to our human relationships .
According to Buber , human relations have two fundamentally different . The
first relation is called I- it ( I - objects ) and second , I- Thou
relationship ( I - Thou ) . I- It relationship ( I - objects ) , according to
Buber , marking the world in which I use objects , manipulate objects . The
world marked arbitrariness . Everything in the world is set according to
categories such as possession and mastery . I- Thou relationship ( I - Thou )
marks a world where I greet you and I greet thee , resulting in a genuine
dialogue . In this world I do not use you, I see you . Encounter is one of the
typical categories bagidunia this , as well as the categories of love and
freedom .
Nahh .. because we live as social beings and
creatures who have a conscience , it is only natural our mutual friendship
between each other . Whether it's friendly because accidentally met and that
was intentional friendship , good friends because of the importance and purpose
or not , but more on a feeling or sense of humanity . Friendship can happen
when we were kids to adults , there is also the time we are adults or fellow
teens to adults but who knows how long hehehhehe . Friend was arguably
important , because it is the best friend of more than friendship . Like most
people say we share the joys and sorrows in a friend or a friend, not a
boyfriend , and best friend will not be replaced is not like a boyfriend or
friends . Bonds between friends is indeed very close but did not rule out the
existence of conflict inside and close ties with friends and still unbeaten
mother and child bond . So ^ ^
Sources : ( Naim , 2012)
Naim , N. ( 2012) . Character Building . Jogjakarta
: Ar - Ruzz Media .
And my opinion
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